Are
you power-hungry, powerless, or powerful?
Power is neither inherently good nor bad, yet often gets a bad
rap. How power is
manifested, rather than power itself, determines whether it is a force
for the good. The natural
world offers us some examples. While
floods can scour destructively, they also deposit soil.
Current research by the U.S. Geological Service on flooding in
the Grand Canyon is seeking to determine how best to restore the
beneficial effects of flooding to the canyon.
And, as we’ve seen repeatedly, forest fires can be
simultaneously beneficial to the ecosystem and destructive to the
built environment.
What
exactly is power? The two
definitions that most enlighten this discussion are found in
Webster’s: possession of control, authority or influence over
others; or the ability to act or produce an effect.
Simply put, power or lack of power affects our ability to get
things done. For this
reason alone, you should be concerned about your power.
But here’s another compelling reason—research has shown
that people who feel powerless over their work experience more stress
and associated health problems than those who have a sense of power
over their work. Powerlessness
can lead to anger, hopelessness, and even depression.
So
it pays to think about your own power.
Modesty aside, how would you respond if asked, “Do you have
power?” I’d suggest
that you probably do have power, though it depends on your situation
at any given time. One
indicator that you have power is that others seek your input and
listen to you. Most of us
find that rewarding.
Let’s
consider your current roles in life: adult, child, mother, spouse,
biologist or forester, supervisor, coach, Sunday school teacher, or
library board member. Simply
by virtue of the fact that you are an adult, you have power over
children. If you are a
parent, presumably you have power over your children.
With your own parents, you may feel either powerless or
powerful depending on their health and circumstances.
You probably have power in certain instances with your
spouse—for example, in deciding where you vacation together. In another instance—maybe his golf obsession—you may find
you have very little power.
In short, there are many different kinds of power and power
shifts depending on the situation and the players involved.
Power
is sometimes, but not always, associated with position.
In the workplace, you may or may not have power associated with
your position. For
example, if you are a supervisor, you have power over your
subordinates. You
probably have the ability to approve leave, make awards, direct work,
promote, and/or terminate. You
need to accept that role and wield that power carefully and surely. Maybe you don’t supervise anyone in your daily work, but
are responsible for maintaining the computer system for your office.
In this role you have power associated with access to
information and communications. What
happens when the network is down?
Work practically ceases, and the most important person or
resource is the one who can fix the problem, the information
technology specialist. To
accept that responsibility is to bring your power to bear at an
important time.
Spotting
Power
Try
and recall meeting someone who exuded power.
What things made you believe that person had power?
There are both verbal and non-verbal cues associated with
power. Non-verbal signals
of power can include erect posture, head held high, a firm handshake,
the use of personal space, and/or a confident appearance.
Verbal
clues about power include clear and articulate speech, an assertive
voice, and command of the language.
In 1980, Tessa Warschaw pointed out in Winning by
Negotiation (New York: McGraw-Hill) that characteristics often
found in women’s speech, including reticence, lack of precision,
being indirect, and speaking with a question mark in one’s voice,
were indicators of powerlessness.
I believe a lot of women have made progress in verbal
assertiveness since this observation!
Nevertheless, these characteristics can be monitored in your
own speech so that you become aware of the messages you are indirectly
sending to others related to your power and confidence.
Kinds
of personal power
It
can be helpful to understand different kinds of power.
Some kinds of power are desirable to cultivate while others are
to be avoided.
Physical
Power
Perhaps
the most obvious form of power is physical power, or power of size and
strength. As we witnessed
in the 2002 World Series, Barry Bonds has physical power.
Obviously, physical size and strength played a more important
role in earlier stages of our evolution, but the truth is that it
still plays a role in relationships.
As women, we often must be vigilant about our personal safety,
and I would argue that we are quite attuned to situations in which we
are the less physically powerful person. Beyond issues of personal safety, situations abound in
everyday life where someone larger and stronger than we are, be it a
man or a woman, has made us aware of that fact and so tipped the power
balance in the situation.
Coercive
Power
This
type of power is based upon control over another person or one’s
ability to take something away from another person.
Synonyms for coercive power include tyranny, dominance, and
coercion. Coercive power
is the reason the word power can carry a negative connotation.
Coercive power might be exercised in the workplace by a
supervisor who denies leave or vacation requests without good cause.
Scott Adams regularly pokes fun at management’s coercive
power in the Dilbert comic strip when the pointy-haired supervisor
directs his employees to perform acts irrelevant to their work just to
demonstrate his power over them.
Informational
Power
This
is the power to persuade based upon facts and information.
A political candidate that can verbally demonstrate a better
grasp of issues in a debate may gain the power to win the election by
garnering additional votes.
Expert
Power
Expert
power emanates from information which has been mastered.
Each of us has encountered in our work someone whom we believe
has a great deal of knowledge about a particular subject.
People who are considered experts on a subject are respected
and asked for advice on that subject.
In making decisions about natural resources, we rely on a
variety of experts, from biologists, to silviculturists, to soil
scientists. When making
investment decisions, we generally value advice from an economist.
Legitimate
Power
Power
obtained by an office or position is called legitimate power.
Individuals understand that the holder of a particular office,
whether it be a Senator, National Park Superintendent, or Regional
Forester, have a certain degree of power inherent in their position.
Deference is generally exhibited to people with legitimate
power regardless of how one might feel towards them as a person.
Think
about the situations in which you have or don’t have power, and
consider what you can do to increase your personal power.
There are no magic formulas, but there are some suggestions.
1)
Take a hard look in the mirror and/or ask a trusted friend,
“What am I communicating to others based upon my speech, my posture,
and my dress?” If you
think you can do better in how you carry, express, or present
yourself, work on improving those things.
2)
Know what you want. Knowing
this gives you power. You
gain and sustain power by knowing your own limits, the right time to
make certain moves, building a track record, and knowing the
strengths, vulnerabilities, and needs of others.
3)
Conduct yourself consistent with your values and words.
According to Stephen Covey, writing in his book The Seven
Habits of Highly-Effective People (New York: Simon and Schuster,
1989), the key to your influence is your actual conduct, which flows
out of your character or the kind of person you are.
Based upon your character, others come to trust or distrust
you. If people trust and
respect you, they are more likely to seek your council, thus giving
you influence and power.
4)
Build your skills and confidence.
Powerful people are all about feeling comfortable with
themselves, their abilities and knowledge.
Gaining experience and furthering your education, whether it be
formal or informal, allows you to build mastery.
By doing this, you’ll be building reserves upon which you can
draw for informational power.
5)
Take care of your health and your body.
Working out with weights for example,
can make you feel stronger and more sure of yourself.
Confidence in your body is communicated non-verbally and can be
a benefit in situations where physical power might be an unspoken, but
very real factor.
We’ve
talked about what defines power, different kinds of power, spotting
power, and how you can enhance your personal power.
But why should you care about having power at work?
You may or may not be convinced that you need to cultivate the
power you currently have, but you’ll probably agree that being
powerless is not desirable. The
bottom line is that having power and wielding it responsibly increases
your ability to affect outcomes.
So, whether for your own benefit or that of others, go
ahead—build your power, and feel the surge!